Questions my folks will definitely ask
In all of my conversations with my folks about the girl(s) I am/was seeing, several questions are always at the tip of their tongues:
"Where is she from? Where did she do her college/Grad School? What does her family do?"
If the girl is Singaporean - "Which JC and secondary school? Is she a scholar?"
Machiam like going for job interview. Very predictable.
I wonder where I will stand if gauged by my prospective bride's family in future. I hope I can pass.
This can very well apply to some Singaporean families too.
Parents draw up a list of suitable suitors for their daughters, and dinners are arranged for the prospective couples to meet. Drawing up this list of suitors is demanding: family backgrounds are investigated to determine if their status would match. Education, wealth, criminal records, political positions, and extraordinary talents are fair game for judging a prospective. This research extends not just to the suitor, but to his entire family. It is a marriage of families, not just of individuals. - Oikono, on the Korean marriage process
For Indian Hindus there's the caste system, which operates very similarly when it comes to marriage between two
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