tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12949653.post7781949654143888322..comments2023-10-01T05:02:17.857-05:00Comments on takchek (读书 ): Careers, Family and Relationshipstakchekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17726707339435418357noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12949653.post-47442695392700701162007-07-08T06:53:00.000-05:002007-07-08T06:53:00.000-05:00There's a difference here - if you are chasing a g...There's a difference here - if you are chasing a girl and she is unaware of the fact that you generally desire companionship, this makes her feel special. If, on the other hand, the girl finds out from other sources that you desired companionship prior to your knowing her, it's a turn-off.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10261652488648958851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12949653.post-26260685017701883272007-07-07T18:59:00.000-05:002007-07-07T18:59:00.000-05:00I think it is obvious to any girl if you are chasi...I think it is obvious to any girl if you are chasing her. <BR/><BR/>What matters most is knowing when to back off - e.g she is not keen or you think the relationship isn't going to work out etc.<BR/><BR/>Getting tenure doesn't ensure finding a mate either. You do know that tenured professors move around too, right? Besides, if you end up becoming a prof/researcher in a college town/national lab takchekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17726707339435418357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12949653.post-63044345913246732512007-07-07T14:13:00.000-05:002007-07-07T14:13:00.000-05:00I think it's a problem that anyone in science will...I think it's a problem that anyone in science will face, until they attain tenured positions. Civil servants are mostly rooted to one place and therefore find it easier to settle down, so it's no coincidence in my opinion!<BR/><BR/>Takchek, since you desire companionship, don't let your mobility affect who you go out with. Just do it and the cross the bridge when it comes.<BR/><BR/>One tip thoughAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10261652488648958851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12949653.post-62597323121675958532007-07-06T09:48:00.000-05:002007-07-06T09:48:00.000-05:00Why the fixation on NOT getting hitched and poppin...Why the fixation on <I>NOT</I> getting hitched and popping out kids?<BR/><BR/>To each his own. I am not sure at this point in my life if I want to have kids. But I would like to have a companion. <BR/><BR/>As for people divorcing, breaking-up and what-nots, again it depends on the couple in question. <BR/><BR/>I don't mind co-habiting, if the other party is agreeable to it! Heh.takchekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17726707339435418357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12949653.post-60841928099589848742007-07-06T06:17:00.000-05:002007-07-06T06:17:00.000-05:00Why the fixation on getting hitched and popping ou...Why the fixation on getting hitched and popping out kids? I always found that baffling. Does being in legal wedlock equate being "settled"? The increasing number of people undergoing divorces, or undergoing annulment of their marriages, would certainly disagree.-benhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05192310743432432356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12949653.post-63950751684203434632007-07-05T22:12:00.000-05:002007-07-05T22:12:00.000-05:00Hi Takchek,Thanks for visiting my blog and leaving...Hi Takchek,<BR/><BR/>Thanks for visiting my blog and leaving a comment. Hope you find a suitable partner soon! :-)QQ*librarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03948325834783761013noreply@blogger.com